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Taco, i dont know why but i feel like every guy in the world is a jerk. I can never find a guy that doesnt only want me because he THINKS he can have sex with me..... he cant!!!! I dont know what to do cause i feel really alone in life. I want someone to love me....... what do i do??? Plz give an answer that isnt stupid. (no offense)
Trying not to be stupid (no offense taken) I will honestly state that virtually all men are jerks. We could get into thousands of pages of explanations, but the primary reason is that all men want to have lots of sex with as many people as possible all the time.
Now, I have a few female friends who have similar problems. The only difference is they have girls after them too. I have noticed that this problem seems to occur much more often when my friends are attractive.
I figure that the type of men (or women) that would openly pursue a particularly attractive woman are those that are very self-confident (that is, arrogant as all hell) who know what they want (sex) and believe they can get it.
Another possibility is that you dress or appear provacatively. In the simple minds of men, this is an advertisement that you want sex. I know that this is VERY rarely the case, but most men don't realize.
My advice is to not allow men to pursue you. Don't be passive. Find a guy that is at least moderately attractive, that doesn't make it clear that he wants to have sex with you, and you pursue him. You ask him out. Odds are you will not be turned down. If you are, find someone else.
The point is, YOU choose who YOU want. Don't let anyone else make the first move, you make your choice and get what YOU want.
