Posted:3/15/2003 7:26:46 PM EST Submitted: 2/19/2003 3:44:43 AM EST
Hello Taco! I've attempted to give my girlfriend an orgasm, but I was never successful at it. She always tells me, "you got the spot and you lost the spot." What is the right way to give a girl an orgasm, and how do you exactly do it? Thank you!
Keep the god damn spot, Remember it, remember EVERYTHING about it, if she says stop and seemed to be enjoying it for a few seconds/minutes before you started what you were doing. DO NOT STOP.
And dont tell her your going to give her an orgasm, because if you dont you let her down and make her think that your a bad lover.
Which you probally are if you cant give her an orgasm.
From: Miami
Posts: 15
>> When a girl says "stop"
First Poster
User: icancount2one
Gender: Male
Posted: 4/28/2003 1:23:01 AM EDT
Fucking STOP. That's like rule number one. If a girl isn't ready to have an orgasm and you force one on her, who knows what kind of psychological damage that could do. If you were such a great lover you'd know that the most important part of intimacy is connection and responsiveness.
From: DOOM
Posts: 33
>> heres a little estrogen for ya-
User: foxforce5
Gender: Female
Posted: 6/18/2003 11:49:50 PM EDT
the prob w/ my man before he "got" what i was talking about w/ this spot situation... is that guys have this thing where the girl says- yes right there! keep going! and the guy gets excited and speeds up which makes his motion sloppy and he looses the spot. keep your cool and keep the pace, the motion, the intensity- and when she says- oh baby! yes! yes!.... keep doin what ur doin... if theres anything she wants ex: speed, pressure, motion.. shell tell you. or you could just ask. its not a big deal.
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Posts: 6
>> strange spot?
User: thewreck
Gender: Male
Posted: 6/21/2004 9:55:17 PM EDT
accually found some pretty strange spot the other month on this girl,
it wasnt the clitoris, it wasnt the g-spot, i already had them scoped out, it was some other spot. somewhere between the clitoris and the vulva, round the 'urine "exhaust"'? It kinda made her twitch pretty wildly, but not in a harmful way, more like in a keep doing it way, nothing ive seen before anyway.. Anyone else noticed this? Could it be some extremely personal spot just for her? Or is that just some general thing that just isnt that known?..
It was very hard to locate though, and u would very easily slip away from it, craved lots of precision and attention... However it was not something that ignited an orgasm by itself, still, it seemed very effectful.
